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Summer’s Farewell: The Year Of The Yard In Review

September 27, 2013 by Leah Leave a Comment

Autumn is here and the chill in the air is making me melancholy.  While fall is nature’s most resplendent display – Mother Earth’s chance to show off – it signals the coming of winter, a cold and barren time in the garden when the bulbs sleep and the animals hunker down for warmth.  I have been busy, tearing out spent tomato plants and tired annuals that have raised the white flag and dropped their petals.  Fall is crunch time.  The evenings descend quickly and the light disappears as I rush around the yard trying to finish digging flower beds and mulch new plants.  Last year at this time I was planting a maple tree and two apple trees, which signaled the beginning of what I refer to as “the year of the yard.”

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The first year in the house was an exhausting marathon of endless projects to make the place livable to the point where I wouldn’t pull my hair out or spontaneously kill someone.  The living room, guest room, and bathroom are finished.  3 rooms!!!  There are still several rooms to complete, but in the meantime, my focus turned outdoors to my glorious blank canvas of a yard.  The vegetable garden was more than I could have hoped for this year.  The yield was ridiculous with baskets of tomatoes, cucumbers, beans, and zucchini.  I still have some watermelon out there and a few forlorn sun sugar tomatoes hanging on, but for this year, the garden is preparing to rest and rejuvenate for next year’s crop.

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I don’t plan on growing jalapenos again since I had no idea what to do with them.  I will definitely grow the Sweet Slice cucumbers again because that variety was awesome.  The tomatoes…I am on the fence.  I will grow the Sun Sugar variety again.  Not the Cherokee Purple because the tomatoes were often misshapen and weird looking, and the plants were gangly.  The San Marzanos were good for sauce, but were a pain to manage.  The Giant Belgium were delicious and amazing, so I may try to do that one again.  All my tomato plants came down with the blight this year due to the immense amount of rain we received.  This is the first occurrence of this in TN since 2009.

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I left the ugly dying plants up and continued to get lots of tomatoes, but boy did it look like a mess in there.  Might not do string beans next season, but then again I might.  The round zucchini were fabulous until the vine borers got to them.  They are on the list for next year, along with maybe one or two plants of regular zucchini.  The watermelons were so fun, but nothing beats a seedless watermelon from the store.  I may use that section for something else next year, like a basil patch, or something fun I find in the seed section.  All in all, the veggie garden was a major success and such a joy to work in and harvest from.  Several neighbors have walked by and commented on all the hard work the yard is, but for me it’s my passion, the hard work was fun and rewarding beyond what I could have known.

My project for the last three months has been a long flower bed lining the main fence on the side of the yard.  This has been a pain to mow and I wanted to plant something pretty.  I started with a bunch of butterfly bushes in different colors, most of which were smuggled back from Mattituck on the plane in a ziploc bag.  They became huge and beautiful and the butterflies were all over these things!  Swallowtails, frittilaries, skippers, sulphurs, and hummingbird moths swarmed these bushes everyday…my heart was so terribly happy!!  Then came the clematis plants.  They were in the clearance section at Lowes (a black hole I can’t resist) and I bought 7 different colors and planted them along the posts of the fence.  Initially I didn’t want anything growing on the fence, but I broke down thinking maybe they would class it up a little, but let’s be honest, there is no plant in this world that can bring class to a chain link fence.

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And lastly, dad’s daylilies to fill in the spaces between the butterfly bushes.  Daylilies are drought tolerant and keep their foliage up through the fall.  They are also incredibly gorgeous when they bloom in large groups.  There are about fifty plants that line the fence now, all from dad’s garden, all his original varieties that he’s hybridized.  No one else in the world has these plants and it is so special to me to have a piece of home in my flower garden.  Digging all of the grass out was a miserable process, but planting the daylilies made it all worth it.  I can’t wait to see the show they put on next spring!

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I have one flowerbed left that I want to finish before fall ends.  I’d like to get some railroad ties and put them around the apple trees to create a rectangular bed.  The soil where they are planted is very hard and some of the roots of the trees are showing, so I want to kill the grass, add some topsoil, and put some low growing, sun-loving perennials between the trees.

One of the most exciting little projects was the planting of my fig tree!  A friend gave me these twigs in the spring and they just took off and started to become a little tree.  As the tree became root bound in its pot, dad helped dig out a useless wad of lilac sticks that refused to bloom.  The roots were massively entangled and there was just no hope for the plant anymore.  The leaves mildewed in the humidity and it looked shoddy at best.  The fig is now happily sprouting new leaves where the lilac dwindled and the old lyriope from the front walk found a home around the base of the little fruit tree.

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Not bad.  Most of the hardest, more labor intensive work is past me, so next year will be mostly maintenance and moving plants around to get them in exactly the right spot.  I wish I had tons of cash to drop at a fancy nursery so I could glam the place up a bit, but hopefully as roots start to establish themselves, the gardens will look less like a patchwork quilt and more like a designed and intentional  landscape.

Autumn, I love you, but I will miss summer’s heat and vibrant growth.  Now comes the time of soups, stews, and pumpkin pies!!!

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November: Phantom Month

December 3, 2012 by Leah Leave a Comment

November was a phantom month.  It came and it went.  It was there and then it simply…wasn’t.  To say I have been busy doesn’t really describe what I’ve been up to.  Busy for me might look different than busy for other people.  My friends who have children (I don’t know how they do it) know a kind of busy that must be exhausting and exhilarating all at the same time.  For me, busy looks like traveling for work, traveling for family and friends, maintaining friendships outside of work, cooking, cleaning, maintaining my 1/2 acre of ground, cleaning gutters, learning Italian, maintaining a relationship, maintaining my faith.  All of these things signal a lack of time alone, which for me, is utterly exhausting.  There is peace and regeneration in time spent alone.

The weekend before November hit, there was one task that had to be finished.  Planting trees.  I wanted to plant a maple that would get bright red in the fall, along with two apple trees.  I settled on an October Glory Maple and two Honeycrisp Apple trees.  Albert Camus once said that “Autumn is a second spring when every leaf is a flower.”  I chose the maple based on this lovely leaf. 

And I chose the Honeycrisp because I love the taste of the variety and they are $2.99 a pound when in season, so hopefully I can save myself some money and get some lovely apples!

To plant the maple my neighbor, Lindsay, came over and helped me dig a hole in some of harshest, rockiest clay soil, I’ve ever seen.  Rob helped separate the soil from the grass while we dug.

After watering the tree as we went, while piling a bit of mud up, we covered the bottom surface with mini pine nuggets.  Over the next weeks, I watered the tree every few days and waited impatiently for the color to change to a cheery autumn red.  More on that later…

I decided to put the apple trees in the same part of the yard.  This time I dug alone and almost immediately ran into some nasty rock with my shovel.  Due to the changing daylight and lack thereof in the evenings, I was forced to wake up early in the morning — which I hate to do, by the way — and dig like a maniac.  The neighbors must have thought me mad.  I got out there with a small spade and used the hammer on top of it to break up the stone, a miserable task.  How a tree would make it in that soil, I could only guess.  I threw some manure in those holes and hoped for the best.  Here’s what happened.

 
There is a Welsh proverb that says “A seed hidden in the heart of an apple is an orchard invisible.”  These two little trees are my mini orchard, sort of visible, with a bit of tender hope attached to them.  There are two other apple trees close by in the neighborhood, so hopefully they will pollinate this spring.

A couple of short weeks later, the maple put on a brilliant little show, just before the bluebirds returned to their new house for the first time.  Bluebirds use these houses in the winter to nestle in for warmth.  Apparently you can even make heated ones!  Now the little birds will have a tree to perch in when they nest in the spring.

As of today, I am happy to report that all trees are still alive!!!  They are standing straight and will hopefully survive the winter.  I also went to the Biltmore in late October and got some bulbs to plant around the base of the maple.  So excited to see these bloom in the spring!

The fall brought with it a melancholy beauty.  I always enjoy nature’s brightest display with the knowledge that it ushers in the cold barrenness of winter.  Small changes like leaves accumulating under the last roses are bittersweet.

One morning in the cold I noticed this monarch butterfly clinging to the butterfly weed.  The wings were malformed and there is simply no way the creature will finish its migratory trip to Mexico, but I have a soft spot in my heart for monarchs from raising them when I was little.  I sat with this one for a moment and appreciated how much effort it must have taken to escape from its chrysalis into the cool breeze of fall.

And then the happiest surprise came when I noticed a sunflower growing in the Japanese Maple planter!

A frost had already come, but this determined little sprout refused to give up.  I couldn’t believe it would actually survive the cold until I went out to the car one morning to find the brightest yellow bloom smiling at me.

There is only one thing left to do in the yard.  The sick plum didn’t pull through and therefore, needs to be pulled out.  The roots are quite insistent that it stay in the ground, but I’m too afraid a disease will spread to the remaining plums.  This is what’s left.  All I can do now is buy a hatchet to sever the remaining roots.  Then the yard will be ready for winter and all it brings.

The first hard frost was beautiful.  Some of the flowers survived, and some simply succumbed to the beauty of the ice before breathing their last.  At this point, I’m ready for the yard to be done.  The sooner winter takes over, the sooner spring will be here!

Filed Under: Gardening Tagged With: butterflies, gardening, trees, yard work

Butterfly Shenanigans

September 21, 2012 by Leah Leave a Comment

Summer is reluctantly fading into fall and I officially added the heavy duvet to my bed last evening, since the house is quite cold when I wake up.  This morning I could swear an arctic breeze had swept through the place at night, but the thermostat said 69.  I have no idea how I will survive the winter if I am freezing now!

The yard still has a lot of action happening as summer hands the baton to fall.  There have been some updates to the house and I will post those soon, but this post is dedicated to the nature outside my door and all its lovely splendor.  Big things really do come in small packages and I find that the tiniest bits of life around this place get my heart pounding. For example, I was headed into the shed one day and noticed this adorable little flower between the boards of the ramp.  I’ve looked in two flower books and cannot find the name of it, but I am enamored!  Some would call it red, but this little gem looks to be a lively Betsey Johnson pink to me.  If anyone knows what this is, please tell me!

Another surprise that has delighted me more than I can say is the fall seedum blooming on my front walk.  The plant has been covered in bumble bees, honey bees, hairstreaks, skippers, moths, and several other bugs I can’t name.  I sat transfixed one day just watching all of them work, the bees sinking face first into the tiny flowers and emerging covered in fluffy bits of yellow pollen.  I envy their ability to dive into flowers.

Several weeks ago I pruned my clematis back and she has revived herself for one last showy display before the cold sets in.  This shade of purple looks awful on clothing, but somehow seems deep and lustrous on a flower.

I feel a bit sheepish about this next bit.  It’s kind of porny actually.  There have been some serious butterfly shenanigans going on in my garden.  I was weeding a bunch of violets out one day and came upon this little guy.  I immediately brought him into the house and was freaking out because I love caterpillars and haven’t had any for so long, but I had to find out what it was.  Turns out, I’d found a buckeye.  These were quite rare on Long Island when I was growing up and I remember finding some in my dad’s garden as a girl.  To this day, it was one of the most exciting butterflies I’ve raised.  They’re quite common in the south.

As I left my little charge on a fresh violet leaf, I discovered some buckeyes having a naughty end of summer fling next to the fence.  If anyone ever asks you how a butterfly is made, I present you with exhibit A.

All of these tiny bugs and flowers are beautiful little worlds unto themselves that unless we stop to observe, we will sadly miss.  As fall approaches and the leaves begin to turn, I encourage you to turn off the TV and make the effort to get outside, take walks, look at the undersides of leaves, follow the flight of a butterfly, and disconnect from the world behind your desk or inside your living room.  These are the things that keep me sane, that remind me there is so much more to life than my own small universe.

Today I head to Long Island for a much needed vacation from house projects and work.  The beach is calling…

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